Monday, 30 January 2017

Their Free will - Your destruction? or Your perfection?

Has anyone ever asked you, "why me?"  Have you ever asked, "why me?"  The answer to both for me is yes.  I have often wondered "why did that happen to me?"   "I didn't deserve that", or "why did You allow that person to hurt me God?"   "Did I do something wrong?"

There are lots of those questions floating around the world today!  And, how do you answer someone who asks you the same things?  How do you explain away their pain?

There is no easy answer out there.

But.... God....

This morning I read Hebrews 5 in my quiet time.  The writer is trying to show the audience of that time that they had priests who prayed for them, who made sacrifices on their behalf for their sins, etc.  But that now there was Jesus!  The High Priest, who made Himself the ultimate sacrifice, who died on a cross at the hands of man's free will, so that you and I have salvation and so that we never have to make sacrifices again for our sins, as He has done so on our behalf.  The writer was trying to explain that Jesus is so much better than any priest.....

These verses jumped out:  Heb 5 v 7 - 9: (7) who, in the days of His flesh, when He had offered up prayers and supplications, with vehement cries and tears to Him who was able to save Him from death, and was heard because of His godly fear, (8) though He was a Son, yet He learned obedience by the things which He suffered. (9) And having been perfected, He became the author of eternal salvation to all who obey Him.

What did I get out of this?  Well, firstly, we all know the story of Jesus praying so hard for God to remove the suffering He was about to endure, from Him.  But that even if He didn't, He would be obedient because, well God is God and He knows best.  The thing that comes to mind here, is that I do not ask for something from anyone, including the Lord, if I do not believe that there is a hope that they can or will answer my request, whether it be for something or help or whatever.  Jesus must of had a hope that God could remove this suffering from Him....

Secondly, He chose to be obedient whether God removed it or not.  We all know that God did not remove this ultimate suffering from Jesus.  But what, for Jesus, was the result of that obedience?  On the surface it was death.  Death of His flesh, right?  But in reality, His obedience led to Him being the author of salvation for anyone who obeys Him, anyone who chooses Him.  Anyone can come to the throne of grace, become sons and daughters of the Living God, because of Jesus' obedience. There is an ultimate way to God, through the death of Christ on the cross, for anyone's salvation.

His obedience led to the salvation of many, and still does.

So how does this relate to us being hurt badly by someone?
Sometimes we think that God allowed this horrible thing to happen to us and it confuses us as to why He would allow such a terrible thing to happen.  I think, its more that God has given man free will on earth and He allows that, He allows man his free will, and in allowing man his free will, others get hurt.  BUT.... and this is a big BUT!  I believe that what man does not realize is that God uses that free will for the good of those against whom that free will was used, not only for their perfection, but also for another's salvation.

Let me clarify.  Joe Soap wanted to hurt you, use you, abuse you, for whatever reason be it his/her own hurt or whatever, their goal was to hurt you.  You, like Jesus did, can ask God to remove this suffering from you which we all know He can, but sometimes He chooses not to.  Why?  Because He allows this hurt not only for your perfection, your growth, your ultimate salvation, He uses what has been meant for your destruction to save you and many others.... Joseph understood this, and he went through awful stuff too.... Gen 50 v 20:  But as for you, you meant evil against me; but God meant it for good, in order to bring it about as it is this day, to save many people alive. 

And this leads me to another aspect of this suffering or hurt you (me, us, we) have experienced.  God has given man free will.  God uses that free will ultimately, to achieve what He has set out to achieve and that is yours and my perfection/purification and salvation, and for anyone else who wants it.  But, the devil also thinks he has dibs on man's free will.  He thinks he can use man's free will to wreak havoc and destruction in your life and mine.  Sadly, he gets it right many times.  We see people hurt who cannot fathom why, and in that hurt they hurt themselves more, or they hurt others and a vicious cycle of hurt becomes the norm.  BUT... if we hand that hurt to God, He uses it for our good and ultimately the good of someone else who has been hurt and needs God as much as we do.

In conclusion, why did God allow this awful thing to happen to you?  You didn't deserve it!  My answer to you is this, He allowed man free will, and in that you got hurt by someone undeservedly.  But, you now have a choice.  You can give that hurt over to God and let Him use it for your good and turn your hurt into a testimony which will help others, or, you can wallow in that hurt which gives the devil licence to continue to let it fester within you for your destruction anyone else he can reach with your hurt and pain.

That is where our free will comes in!  That is where we can, like Jesus, in obedience, allow God to turn our hurt and pain into victory for ourselves and anyone we can help experiencing the same hurts and agonies.  I hope this has been an encouragement for you today, to hand your hurt over to God.  Let Him use it for your good and the salvation of many others as both Jesus and Joseph did.

God bless

PS:  The above giving of our hurt to Jesus, leads to another great aspect of obedience.... Forgiveness.... {watch this space}


  1. Obedience is sometimes hard to do, but yeah, it's fruits are amazing.



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