Thursday, 28 July 2011

C - The 4 C's

When I got married the pastor told us of the 4 C's:

  • C ommitment
  • C ommunication
  • C ompromise
  • C hrist
1 - Commitment
Prov 3 v 16:  Commit your works to the Lord, and your thoughts will be established.
 To commit to something or someone is to dedicate yourself to it/them.  Dedication implies 100% effort.  God is completely committed to His children.  I reckon commitment is a conscious decision that one takes.  We should commit our mind, body, and soul to our Creator and Saviour.  And God calls on us to commit all we do, to Him as well, and He will influence our thoughts for our benefit.
Commitment implies trust

2 - Communication
When I think of communication with God, I think of prayer and reading His word.  God communicates with us in a way that we, the individual will hear.  If you are a nature lover, God will be found there.  If you are a practical person, God will speak to you in a practical manner.  If you are a writer, God will speak to you through words.  I suppose you could say God is committed to communicating with us one way or another!

3 - Compromise
In terms of relationships with others, I think to get on with people we all need to find places of compromise.  God says in His word that where at all possible, get on with people!

God does not compromise!  His word is His Word!  We are not to add to it, or take away from it or water it down in any way!  If God says its wrong - its wrong!  His word is there to protect us and prevent us from falling into sin!  Its not a wooden spoon unless it has to be!

God sets high standards because, well, He is God.  God knows us and our fallible nature - that is why He extends He grace and mercy and forgiveness to us.

4 - Christ
Most importantly, Christ!  Without Christ we are nothing.  It is really that simple.  He is our Saviour, He died to save us.  He is our cloak of righteousness, so we are acceptable before God.  He is our example to which we strive to attain.

Phil 4 v 13:  I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me

My encouragement to you is to live your life in Christ, every day, every hour!  Without Him, everything we do is for nothing!

God bless


  1. OOOOH! Totally rocking the purple.
    Love it.
    The first verse is the one I'll be ruminating on today. Commit your works to the Lord, and your thoughts will be established. Love that!

  2. Amen Tracy!

    I love the one on communication. I absolutely love to read but when I read something that is not the bible and it hits home with me I often wonder of that is God communicating to me, I guess it is.

    Blessings to you Tracy.

  3. Great reminder, Tracy. Communication is so key.

  4. Hi Stefanie - thanks, kind of blinged up a bit

    Hi Kandi - I believe that whole-heartedly.

    Hi Eileen - I agree, without communication, compromise and commitment would be difficult.

    Thank you precious ladies for your comments. They mean a lot to me
    God bless

  5. Love the 4-C's Tracy. All of them are so important for our marriage and for life. Many blessings!

  6. So blessed to have a godly man with whom I can share the 4-C's. Thanks for this! God bless you!

  7. Great post, Tracy! Your pastor gave you great tools for the foundation of your marriage. And you've passed on some great tools for us as Christians.

    God bless you!!

  8. Like the new look! Good word here - you are always full of great reminders and encouragement!

  9. Wonderful words of wisdom. This is a very encouraging post!


  10. No without Him - we are nothing!
    Thoroughly enjoying this :)


  11. I love it when my husband get to perform marriage ceremonies and prepare special comments for each couple.


  12. What a neat idea to post your way through the alphabet. I've enjoyed catching up on reading your recent posts. The 4C's are wonderful advice for marriage and life!

  13. Hi Lisa - You are so right, blessings to you to.

    Hi Deb - We Christian ladies are very blessed to have Christian husbands who try to walk the right road with us. God bless to you to.

    Hi Lisa - The 4-C's are something I have to come back to often. I'm grateful to have those tools - now to just use them more often?!
    Blessings to you too

    Hi Deidra - Thank you, and thank you. Your words encourage me. Blessings

    Hi Joan - I appreciate the encouragement.

    Hi Glenda - I bet your Husband has a whole drawer full of wise words to offer to those getting married. Would make an interesting post?

    Hi Strengthrenewed - It is definitely a challenge but I am enjoying it. glad you are too.

    Thank you ladies for all the comments. You make my day!
    God bless

  14. Hi Maria - Thank you for your encouraging words. Hope you continue to enjoy the rest of the a-z.
    God bless

  15. Your pastor offered great advice. Loving your responses to the A-Z Christian Theme Challenge! Thank you so much for sharing the insights God has given you into His Word.
    Pam at

  16. Hi Pam, its something I have thought about often with regards to marriage. Very wise words.
    Thanks for the comments.
    God bless



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