Wednesday, 21 June 2017

Follow YOUR path... Not someone else's!

There is so much "help" and "advice" out there which is just plain confusing most of the time.  When you have a decision to make in your life and you start researching what to do, you end up finding a lot of stuff that just makes things worse.

WORLDLY ADVICE
As a Christian the worldly advice is easy to avoid.  Well, sort of anyway.  It may take a while but when you take the time, and make the effort, to measure the world's advice against scripture... well it does not take long to figure out that it is usually anti what the Lord would encourage you to do or which path to take.

FRIEND'S ADVICE
This is a tough one.  Firstly, your friends speak from a variety of experiences that colour their opinions and advice.  They may have gone through what you currently are going through and their choices were good ones, for them, or maybe not such good choices, but the results are not yet there for all to see, if ever.  They may encourage you one way or another based on their hurt, which is not objective.  They may even use scripture to back their choices and decisions up, but even that can be subjective because if you try hard enough, you can get a scripture to fit your desire.  And even more confusing, their advice based on their choices may have been perfect for them, but their circumstances, however similar, are not your circumstances, nor necessarily where God is leading you.

WOMEN IN MINISTRY'S ADVICE
This for me is becoming a bit of a "thing".  Not because I believe that they are not giving good solid biblically based encouragement and advice... Its more to do with what are they doing in their lives. I'm finding it difficult to define my issues with certain ministries right now so I won't get into it here.   Mostly it boils down to what they say in their ministries is not necessarily matching up to their lives.  Their personal lives are not my concern but what worries me is that these women are in a position to speak into the lives of us regular women and are examples that we look up to and respect... and then... their lives are just as chaotic as ours and no different!  They seem to not have the victory they preach we can have!  The scripture they expound, they do not practice... or push through...

Urgh, I know I am confusing matters here.  Lets just say, be careful to measure what ANYONE in a ministry position says, against God's word.  If it measures up, good!  If not, thats not advice you want to follow.

GOD'S ADVICE, His WORD!
And finally, the ultimate authority, God's word.  Now, usually I go to the word last!  Horrifying I know.  I tend to exhaust all other avenues first and then think, well, what does the word say? Nope!  The word is where I should start at and then evaluate any other advice alongside what I think scripture might be telling me.


I was tussling with something!  And I looked to see what the world was saying and doing!  Hmmm, that one was easy to eliminate.  Definitely NOT Godly or even moral advice!  Then I looked closer to home.  What were my friends saying and doing?  Confusion reigned supreme as they were resolving similar issues differently!  This just confirmed for me that everyone's ideas, circumstances, and choices are not the same, nor will ever be a "one size fits all" scenario!  So I travelled in my quest to hear what my favourite women in ministry were saying.  Well, truth be told, some say one thing, but their lives say another, or because of their choices and circumstances, the word they preach is marinaded in their experiences which I suppose is completely human, but is it necessarily what God's word is saying....???

Isaiah 30 v 1-2:  Woe to the rebellious children," says the LORD, "Who take counsel, but not of Me, and who devise plans, but not of My Spirit, that they may add sin to sin. Who walk to go down to Egypt, and have not asked My advice."

Rom 12 v 2:  And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.

So, eventually one comes to the final authority on all things.  God's word is so clear on certain issues and this really helps to put what one is struggling with in perspective.  It may not resolve your issue, but it will certainly resolve whose solutions and advice you should definitely NOT listen to.  Also, the point which I felt the Lord made clear to me in all this chaotic thinking is this, what might be His answer for you, is not necessarily His answer for me!  I have to lean into Him, so He guides me onward on my path.  To try step out onto your path can lead to hurt, misunderstandings, misguided steps and confusion.

I read a statement yesterday that helped me in all this, "Stop trying to figure it all out, Trust God".  Now, that is simplifying everything truly, but sometimes we do complicate matters if we open too many "windows" at one time in our hearts and minds!  The world, your friends, and all other sources of advice can become very noisy.... Shut them all out and press into God's word!  It IS the only path you want to follow...

God bless
Tracy

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